So this is me, Tammy, nearly forty, happily married and living in the South coast of England. I work as a Paramedic, I put great value on my friends and family and have a pretty functional relationship with my parents. I work out, have several hobbies and in the main I would describe myself as happy….. oh and I have no children.

The reasons I am childless are complicated but largely through my own choice. This blog is for anyone who finds themselves living through their middle age without children. May that be a lifestyle choice, an enforced decision, due to divorce or just simply not being in the right place at the right time.

I hope you find some inspiration and comfort as you join me on my journey.